Head-on!

Don’t let their words just sink down over you, like a blanket shaken out by the corners. 

Close your eyes and say…

Believe in yourself and it’ll make you stronger than you could ever imagine. 

Just face the enemy, and let the rest of the battle be just details. 

Have a bully-proof life!

Bullying…a form of abuse to someone who’s apparently weak. 

One of my friends confessed to us that she’s been bullied since she’s little. She’s been called fat-ass, lard-o and thunder thighs. She’s even locked in a dark room, while the bully yelling from the other side of the door, “I’ll let you out when you stop being fat!!! I guess you’ll stay there forever.” —made me cry…that’s a horrible, traumatising experience. 

Her body is changed now. She got cheekbones, muscles, flat stomach, clear and soft skin. But according to her, something is still missing—the confidence. 

We told her that she’s beautiful inside and out, and her body is perfect. We hugged her…wishing that’s enough for her to believe and love herself. 

I know it’s hard for her. Yes, she could build muscle, but not confidence. There were no exercise for that. 

I really hope and pray that she’ll find that small light to peel away that self-loathing and feel the acceptance and self-love. 

Everyone deserves respect. So, if you have no kind words, then say no words at all. 

You deserve it!

We all deserve to feel all forms of love. Don’t think that you’re unworthy of being loved, all of us are worthy. 

Love yourself, then try to give love to those around you as much as you give yourself. I know it’s kinda hard to deal with people who are toxic, negative and hateful…but at the very least, it won’t hurt you if you’ll send them your love and positive thoughts. 

I’m grateful to be able to give and receive love☺️❤️

Welcome back my friend :)

Hey I’m back!…

I could hear the happiness/excitement in his voice…

I really adore him for his unfailing optimism…

Like how many times had I been in the hole of despair, and only him reach down and pulled me up?

….uhmm, more than I cared to remember. 

Girl, be okay…

When my friend and her boyfriend show up in a coffee shop, it’s like I’m seeing her for the first time…

She’s the most gorgeous girl I know…

Her makeup is always perfect…

Her clothing style and taste is always perfect that she can handle different theme…

I mean, one day, she’ll come in a hard-core like biker-chick and the next day, she’ll be in a lace and float skirt…

And she’s always in a good mood…

But not today…

She looks terrible…

Totally frazzled…

It has to be because of her boyfriend…

He’s a mess (sorry to say this), but he’s dragging her down with him…

I wish there was something we (her friends) could do to make her realize…

But, the big question is…

How can she not see it herself?

Somewhat 

It’s like he’s just half listening, half thinking…

Took him forever to answer my messages…

It’s not like he’s a bad friend…

I know he tries…

It’s just that when you try to balance so many things at the same time, it’s really inevitable that something’s gonna fall…

His job and extended circle of friends changed him a lot…

He didn’t use to be this way…

He was more caring…

What happens to friends when they meet new friends?

Umm…It’s like they forget their old friend or something.